Friday, May 9, 2008

Definition Of LOVE

Definition of LOVE
L stand for Listen to what she or he have to say.O stand for Observe the communication and ( The Numbers Factor )*V stand for Verify where is the gap or communication break-down.E stand for Engage what we suppose to do to make she or he happy.
In The Term Of ListeningListening is the first priority criteria in a relationship,in order for us to understand the need of our love once we must first know how to listen first before we express our thought.Do you still remember when is the last time our love ones asked us '' Is my dress look good tonight ? ".Do we answer it with our thoughtful conscience or we do not really listen to it attentively.Look at the great leaders from all over the world,they are good listeners to many mentor or ad visor before they make any decision.Look at the great teacher or lecturer in the schools anduniversities,they are the student's good listeners too.When it come to a relationship's issue or '' Love '',it is time now we want to reveal it to you. We mentioned '' Thought '' that it is so powerful that we do not actually realize how powerful '' Thought '' can be.It is the '' Thought '' that activate our mind to order our '' Action '',eventually '' Action '' with several times became '' Habit ''.And it is the '' Habit '' that build our characters over the years.When it is the time we really put our ears to listen attentively to certain issue that only interest us,the problems now a lot couples facing is don'treally look at what is their needs before they commit them self in a relationship.And they not really putting a listening ears or en ought attentions to certain small issue which eventually become bigger problems in the future.Some of those who pretend to listen will have problems too because they only want to listen to those issue or things which interest them.( Selective Listening )We live in a make believe world,once we are married,we are married to their family members too.We have to learn how to go about it and live it with peace and happiness.That is the reason why you are still reading this at this moment,it is either you are facing a relationship problems or you still searching a way out for a great relationship.To get true love in life is to have a strong fundamental base in a relationship first,it is a process everyone will go through it in life.Here i are having a few solutions for your relationship problems that i have the good intention to help you,so join me and you will be amazed how simple life can be if you want it to be.And guess what,itis still not end of the ''L ove'' yet.
In The Term Of Observe
Ever since Human learned to rip fruits,leaves or hunting in the jungle for survival,they all have to go through certain level of experiences and training before they can hunt on them self or being discerning enough to determine which food they rip is not poisonous.Unfortunately some of them died because of taken the wrong food instead of the right one.And so on,the others tried hard to challenge the nature and continue to venture into the new world.Until today,the new world have changed us a lot,in personality and characteristic.In the way we look at life,the way we judge people,and many others different behavior research never before being revealed.This discovery is the first of its kind in this new world,by just analyse from a person birth date,one can discover an individuals personality traits,capabilities,unique characters,interaction with others human being,most suitable career or business,compatibility and many more.It is a new way of decoding human behavior.It is a survivor skills i am going to reveal to you.In order to take charge in our life,wheat her is for yourself or for your love ones.We all want a good life,i will help you to tap into an individuals innate capacity for greater job performance and job satisfaction.And also your success in life,wheat her it is love,relationship or career.In the history,politics and relationship,do we ''OBSERVE'' en ought before make any decision.This secondpart of research covers ''Human Behavioral Science''.
In The Term Of Verify
It has been long these words mingle around my conscience since i encounter my first failure in a relationship many years ago.Fear,sorrow,grief,tears and obstacles in this bumpy and rocky relationship made me look at relationship differently and want to make things better.Definitely is something you are very curious about and you want to know what is it for you to learn and discover what you can do and what to avoid to toil a relationship,wheat her it is a wife and husband or boyfriend and girlfriend things.We all are here to find out the answer and i have decided to share whatever resources and research i have done to help those who is stillwondering what to do to get someone who is able to share their feelings openly and grow wrinkles together until the day theirs kid remember they had a loving parents,passionate about each others life.And being number one person live deep inside their heart.''Verify''vs''Conscience''.
In The Term Of Engage
When we all know what is the ''Evaluation'' is about,is time now we come to know ''Engage'' is also very important.In the sense that many people would have thought only ''Evaluation'' can decide or determine a relationship wheat her it works or not.Everyone wants a engaging relationship and a happy life,who wants to toil their relationship for no reasons.
Briefly,i have shared the definition of ''LOVE'',now please join me on this special project of life.Give me your opinion or axiom that hidden deep in your conscience.
Following are the important discussion with you:
Analyzing the situation and communication.The 70/30 50/50 90/10 factor. ( The Numbers Factor )*What is true friendship.What is true LoveHow to overcome fear and negative self-talk.Develop an optimistic attitude toward relationship.It is better to have LOVED and LOST then never to have LOVE at all.Know how of how to be selective and not making wrong decision.Excuses to get to know each other,tel no,sms,email and other.Eye contact,body language and other signs that you are not aware of.Know the behavior on smart dating,on line dating and any gathering.What are the do and don't on the first date.Being sensitive to issue that matters.How to do self-assessment after first date.What to do when there is no contact after the first dating.The deadly mistake is procrastination''Evaluation''What is timing and golden opportunities.How to make a breakfast that made her remember the beautiful sunrise.How to make her remember how you really enjoy watching sunset together. How warm are your letters to her in a cold night. Is your listening good enough or did you put all ears to her problems.Tackle the deadly mistake from writing it in '' Daily diary '' , '' Monthly diary''.Exchange diary and candle light dinner.How to be creative when her birthday is coming.Remember and remind each other the first dating and revising diary content.The power of a small note,trust the note rather than electronic device.When to put in deeper meanings in a relationship when time is right.It is time to show to treasure the relationship to a certain level.The Love and memory Box.The secret of rose garden.The age gap and the impossible.Not meant to be together and how to over come it.The art of losing and how to win back her heart.Make a difference and compose a song even you are not good at it.How the other family members treat you.Father and mother greatest creation is YOU. The day both of you walk through the red carpet.Sustain and move on.The day we die.Remembered and respected by all.
It has been long these words mingle around my conscience since i encounter my first failure in a relationship many years ago.Fear,sorrow,grief,tears and obstacles in this bumpy and rocky relationship made me look at relationship differently,so the tag line on this subject is named what is Love,Bread and Butter as i told you before.Definitely is something you are very curious about and you want to know what is it for you to learn and discover what you can do and what to avoid to toil a relationship,wheat her it is a wife and husband or boyfriend and girlfriend things.We all are here to find out the answer and i have decided to share whatever resources and research i have done to help those who is still wondering what to do to get someone who is able to share their feelings openly and grow wrinkles together until the day theirs kid remember they had a loving parents,passionate about each others life.And being number one person live deep inside their heart.
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